With fellowship, size matters: Smaller is better

March 10, 2015 by  
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How wonderful it is, how pleasant, for God’s people
to live together in harmony!” (Psalm 133:1 TEV)

God intends for us to experience life together.
The Bible calls this shared experience fellowship.


Today, however, the word has lost most of its biblical meaning.
“Fellowship” now usually refers to casual conversation, socializing, food, and fun.

The question, “Where do you fellowship?” means, “Where do you attend church?”
“Stay after for fellowship” usually means, “Wait for refreshments.”
Real fellowship is so much more than just showing up at services.
It is experiencing life together.


It includes unselfish loving, honest sharing, practical serving,
sacrificial giving, sympathetic comforting,
and all the other “one another” commands found in the New Testament.

When it comes to fellowship, size matters:
Smaller is better.
You can worship with a crowd, but you can’t fellowship with one.


Once a group becomes larger than about 10 people,
someone stops participating — usually the quietest person —
and a few people will dominate the group.

Jesus ministered in the context of a small group of disciples.
He could have chosen more, but he knew 12 is about the maximum size
you can have in a small group if everyone is to participate.


The Body of Christ, like your own body, is really a collection of many small cells.
The life of the Body of Christ, like your body, is contained in the cells.

For this reason, every Christian needs to be involved in a small group within their church,
whether it is a home fellowship group, a Sunday school class, or a Bible study.

bible study

This is where real community takes place, not in the big gatherings.
If you think of your church as a ship, the small groups are the lifeboats attached to it.

God has made an incredible promise about small groups of believers:
“For where two or three have gathered together in My name,
I am there in their midst” (Matthew 18:20 NASB).

– fwd: v c mathews

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